Can protected anal sex still lead to HIV?

Hello doctor,

I met a man who was a foreigner. During the winter, one night we went to a restaurant in and after that we went to a bar for some drinks and then to a food store. I had not dressed appropriately for the cold weather and I had no hat or scarf and it was very cold. We ended up going to his place. Next thing, I was fingering him and we had oral sex. I started to masturbate but I am circumcised so it hurt without moisture. He gave me jerkins and I was behind him. I slipped inside him and he came off. Then we put on a condom and did anal. We did mostly cuddling. Then I pulled out the condom with no ejaculation. The next day, I developed a severe headacheso I assumed it was from the alcohol. I was not drunk. The next day, I started to get burst of muscle and joint pains throughout my body mainly when I was indoors. I was caught up with my final exams so I ignored the pains. When the pain went on for some days I went to a sexual health clinicand did a full STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) test. I got negative for HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) but for acute HIV I had to wait 10 days for all the results. I still had the pains and took no pills. The very next day, I had night sweat and chills. I got so worried that I went at 11 p.m. to a 24-hours pharmacy to buy painkillers. My fever went up to 104°F. I took Tylenol then get a cab at 3 a.m. to go to the ER. The fever went down and I did not see the doctor until 8 AM. and I only got a painkiller. The next day I saw my right leg looked slightly swollen. Since then, my fever has always been low and the muscle painand joint pain was still present. I ended up rushing to other ERs (Emergency Room) for help. Two nights ago, the pain got to me when I tried to sleep. My arms, armpits, neck, collarbone, groin, legs were all paining. I got another HIV antibody/antigen blood test just two weeksafter possible exposure and it came negative. I have been taking Ibuprofen every five hours to reduce the pain but I start to get breathing problems and my bladder areafeels tender with pain in the upper right abdomen. I explained to my friend all my experiences but he was firm that he is negative. We did not have bareback sex and we used a condom. I have no diarrhea, cough, fatigue or rash. Is it possible that I have contracted HIV? I only have sex two times per year without ejaculation. My friend tends to be more active.

Thank you doctor,

I have already gotten a flu shot a month ago but I am worried that after fingering and then unprotected penetration for a second, rectal fluid was present, would provide a high-risk scenario. The feeling of painwas mainly targeted at my lymph nodes and all of this was within two weeks lasting for more than a week since possible exposure. I had malaise and sleepless nights.

The day of my possible exposure was December 11. Because of the multiple symtomps I had I assume my viral load is high. I did 4 generation Hiv ab/ag combo test on the 18th, 23rd and 25th of December. They all came back negative. I did another test on the 29th but I haven't received the results as yet I am still feeling muscle pain,tingling in my fingers and little abdominal pain but they are not severe since one of my doctors prescribe taking Ibuprofen every 5 hours of the day. I have no diarrhea, no unusual discharge, no fatigue or cough. I developed a slight soar throat that I think may have resulted from the current harsh winter conditions

Thank you I did HIV RNA test and awaiting the results. However, is it common for Hiv symptoms to occur a few days after possible exposure? To be frank, i started to get a severe headache within several hours then body aches as the day progressed