HomeAnswersPediatricsparentingMy 10-year-old son is very mischievous and naughty and does not listen to my input. Please assist me in making my child responsible and active.

What are the ways to modify a 10-year-old's behavior?

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Published At August 7, 2023
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Patient's Query

Hello doctor,

My ten-year-old kid is very mischievous and naughty. He does not listen to my input and instead watches television and plays video games, which concerns me. He does not play with friends and is inactive. He also appears obese when compared to his other friends. Even if I talk about it, he does not appear to understand what I have to say. Please assist me in making my child responsible and active.

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I read your query and can understand your concern.

I would like to suggest a few things that may help you address the situation.

Open communication: Find a calm and comfortable time to have a heart-to-heart conversation with your son. Express your concerns genuinely and empathetically, emphasizing your love and desire for his well-being. Give him the opportunity to share his thoughts and feelings, and listen attentively to what he has to say.

Set limits and boundaries: Establish reasonable limits on screen time and encourage him to engage in other activities. Create a daily schedule that includes a variety of activities such as outdoor play, sports, hobbies, reading, or spending time with friends. Ensure that these activities are enjoyable and align with his interests.

Be a role model: Children often learn by observing their parents' behaviors. Set an example by limiting your own screen time and actively engaging in physical activities. Involve the entire family in fun and healthy activities that your son can participate in.

Encourage social interactions: Talk to your son about the importance of socializing and building friendships. Encourage him to invite his friends over or arrange playdates. Additionally, you could explore local community programs, clubs, or sports teams where he can interact with peers who share similar interests.

Promote a healthy lifestyle: Help your son understand the importance of a balanced diet and regular exercise. Involve him in meal planning and preparation, and make healthier food choices as a family. Encourage physical activities that he enjoys, such as bike riding, swimming, or playing a sport.

Seek professional guidance: If your concerns persist and you feel that your son's behavior is significantly impacting his well-being, it might be helpful to seek professional guidance from a pediatrician or child psychologist. They can provide further insights and advice tailored to your son's specific needs.

Remember, change takes time, and it is important to be patient and supportive throughout the process. By combining these strategies with understanding and encouragement, you can help your son develop healthier habits and a more balanced lifestyle.

I hope this helps.

Thank you and take care.

Regards.

Same symptoms don't mean you have the same problem. Consult a doctor now!

Dr. Veerabhadrudu Kuncham
Dr. Veerabhadrudu Kuncham

Pediatrics

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