What could cause delayed ejaculation and low sexual drive in a 20-year-old male?

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Hello doctor,

My boyfriend and I (both 20 years old) have been sexually intimate for five months and in that time, he has never ejaculated during intercourse or any other act. He has no problems ejaculating on his own but cannot ejaculate when he is sexually intimate with me. We have spent one and a half hours being intimate and nothing happened to him. I am worried about him and when I bring it up, he acts like it is no big deal. I am worried that there is something physically wrong that is causing this because he also seems to have a low sex drive for a 20-year-old male. How can I express my concern without sounding dissatisfied? Is this normal?

Thank you.

Answer 1

Hello,

Welcome to icliniq.com.

I read your query and can understand your concern.

First of all, I would like to inform you that it is not normal, and can be stated that he suffers from retarded ejaculation. This often happens due to multiple reasons and we need to go through the complete details before making conclusions. I come across a few of the individuals and many of them exhibit stress symptoms. It is possible that he finds it difficult to acknowledge but having professional consultation may open up his mind. Rather than calling yourself dissatisfied, you need to show concern as it will make a great difference. It is also possible that he is concerned but due to fear of dissatisfaction or some other reason, he finds it difficult to admit.

I hope this helps you.

If you have more questions, feel free to write.

Regards.

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