Q. How to manage symptoms and treat uncontrolled hypertension?

Hi,

I am 46 years old. I have had untreated high blood pressure for years. As a result, I am now having breathlessness, chest pressure and pain, lightheadedness, fatigue, pain in the ears, jaw, arms, chest to back, pounding in my chest, ears, and head, and daily headaches. The same incident has been happening for about a year and is increasing in severity. I have for years been very active and excited (cycling) for up to four hours a day, and five days a week. However, my ability to do my workouts has steadily decreased over the past years, and I can no longer work out very severely without feeling the following day.

My blood pressure is as low as 148/98 mm of Hg and as high as 186/107 mm of Hg, taken when I am rested. I never get a normal reading. The average is around 166/107 mm of Hg. My husband thinks I should manage this on my own. He thinks a doctor would only give me expensive medicines that would not be as good as home care. But I am afraid. I never felt well.

Should I consult a doctor?