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Q. I get intimidated by others, forget words, and start stammering. Why?

Answered by
Dr. Parth Nagda
and medically reviewed by Dr. Sneha Kannan
This is a premium question & answer published on Aug 04, 2020
Male, 38 Years Old, Married, one child. Suffering following problems:
difficult to sleep in night. always feel sleepy
Memory Weak, forgets things very easily, low concentration, lethargic
confusion in decision, low self esteem and low confidence, feel that i am good for nothing
feels no one like me, gets very conscious in front of seniors/smart people, feel like loss of words, shivering and even some time stammer also. Dont not know what to speak in front of others. anxity
sudden thoughts of death of self and other family members, suffers from PE.
emotionally weak, eyes get teary and feel like crying while see/hear anything emotional

Dr. Parth Nagda

# Hello sir.

Your symptoms are typical that are seen in major depressive disorder.
It is very common and happens to about 1 in 4 males and 1 in 8 females.

It happens due to reduced levels of certain neurotransmitters such as serotonin which reduce the stress handling capacity of the brain.
Medicines will help with correcting this chemical imbalance and help with your problem.

Medicines are normally given for 3 or 4 months and then stopped.
Medicines will take about a week to show effect.

Normally psychiatrists will prescribe ssri class of medicines/ Tca class of medicines for your problem.
Either taking escitalopram 10mg once at night after food or amitriptyline 50mg once at night after food will help with this issue.

Apart from those, for sleeping, you can take melatonin 5 or 10 mg. It's available in any decent pharmacy over the counter and doesn't need a prescription. You can try taking that daily at night. Apart from that you can try some sleep hygiene methods like
- maintain good temperature, no noise or light
-1 hr prior to bed, wind down and try reading or music.
Don't use the laptop, tv or phone 1 hr prior.
-avoid caffeine, alcohol or tobacco 2 hrs prior to sleeping
- avoid exercises 3 hrs before sleeping -take warm milk at bedtime
- go to bed only when sleepy and avoid other activities on bed.
Use bed only for sleeping or sex.
- if you don't get sleep, don't toss and turn, get up, go to another room, walk about for 10 15 min and come and lie down. See for 10 min, if not sleepy go out again.
- try deep breathing exercises, progressive muscle relaxation techniques, or yoga or meditation. It will also help.

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Why i feel low confidence in front of others? i get intimidated in front of people. I forget words and i start stammering. I feel unwanted.
whenever i see any emotional news/movie/situation in real life, i feel like crying. my eyes get teary.
Also the medicines u prescribed, will they make me habitual of it and will they hamper my driving by causing sleepiness.

Dr. Parth Nagda

# Sir that's seen in depression. It causes low confidence, and you have social anxiety also. In depression there is a inability to process emotions properly and that's why you get teary.

No sir, it's not addictive.
If I were to give you an example, it's exactly like iron deficiency or vitamin deficiency or calcium deficiency.
Once the chemical imbalance is corrected, the medicines are tapered off and stopped.

And no, these are not sleeping tablets

They help reduce the excessive thoughts and help you get natural sleep

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