Dr. Bharat Udey
MD PSYCHIATRY., MBBS
Geriatrics, Psychiatry, Sexology, Sleep Medicine
Welcome back to icliniq.com.
Good to hear from you. It is very impressing to know that you have maintained a very successful married life.
Regarding your query pertaining to few dots that you have observed on your urethra after shower, I would like to enquire few things about them as well.Whether these dots are elevated above the surface and palpated by fingers or are just visualized but non-palpable?
In case they are palpable then there could be a possibility of a genital wart. If not palpable then it could be the normal structural part of urethra. The genital warts can be acquired by having anal intercourse as well. If performed anal coitus too frequently without using condoms, then chances of acquiring genital warts are too high.
They are often associated with itching as well. However, need not panic. They can be removed with treatment. To be sure about it, consult a venereologist. Regarding your frenulum tear, now it become brighter but have reduced in size, you need not to be worried about it, as it is following the natural course of healing. It will heal completely gradually.
Meanwhile, follow the precautions that I have advised in previous query and maintain abstinence from vigorous coitus for a while.
For further information consult a sexologist online --> https://www.icliniq.com/ask-a-doctor-online/sexologist