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Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling will help to improve good communication between the partners and to set realistic goals for marriage. A positive attitude can be established between the couples, and it can help to conflict management skills. It helps to improve overall relationships and satisfaction between partners.

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I am getting married, please provide advice on intimacy

Query: Hi doctor, My age is 25. My height is 180 cm and weight 84 kg. I am going to get married in the next six months. What should be the frequency of sex after marriage? My penis is about 11 cm while erect. Is it normal? What is average intercourse time? I can only hold up to 3 minutes. Is it normal? ...  Read Full »


Dr. Nidhi Jain

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. Sex frequency is not fixed, but the average should be twice weekly. It should depend on both partners wish. Timing of sexual intercourse of 3 minutes is also within normal limit. It will increase when you will perform sexual intercourse regularly. Erect penis of 11 cm i...  Read Full »

Kindly advise on the premarital health check-up done here.

Query: Hello doctor, Please provide second advice on reports. I would like to know if any other tests I should undergo apart from the existing ones.  Read Full »


Dr. Atishay Bukharia

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. I have gone through your reports. Please share your history or complaints. Regards.   Read Full »

My fiancée and I have the same blood group. Is it fine?

Query: Hello doctor, My fiancee and I have the same blood group. Will it affect our married life? I will be happy if you explain this to me.  Read Full »


Dr. Penchilaprasad Kandikattu

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. There is no harm in marrying a girl with the same blood group as you. Everyone is born with a certain blood type that is either Rh positive or Rh negative. Rh-positive blood is more common than Rh-negative. There is no problem if you marry a partner with the same blo...  Read Full »

I am a 29-year-old female. When should I plan for the baby?

Query: Hi doctor, I am a 28 year old woman and I am likely to get married by next year. As I will be 29 years old by the time I get married, should I plan to have a baby right after marriage? Or can I take some time? My fiancé is not keen to plan a baby right after marriage. He is also 28 years old now an...  Read Full »


Dr. Anshul Varshney

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. We are here to help you. It is definitely advisable to plan a baby before one turns 30 years old. However, these days most people get married late and plan baby accordingly. So, it is not you should plan baby as soon as you get married. It is always advisable to plan a b...  Read Full »

Does blood group compatibility affect conceiving success?

Query: Hello doctor, I am going to marry next month. Actually, problem is, I have A +ve blood group and she has B -ve blood group. So, I want to know, will this blood group combination create a problem at a time of conceiving to the mother and the fetus in the future?  Read Full »


Dr. Goswami Parth Rajendragiri

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. You are having a positive group and your wife is having a negative group. So, in the first pregnancy, it will not create any problem in the mother or child. But, sensitization to Rh antigen can occur and mother forms antibody against Rh D antigen. If she conceives fo...  Read Full »

I am confused about getting married. Please help.

Query: Hello doctor, I am getting married soon. Recently there has been some issue between me and my fiancé. My fiance has sent screenshots of all our discussions to his parents and uncle. This has been done for the second time after we said yes to each other. Now I am very much tensed as I am thinking th...  Read Full »


Dr. K. V. Anand

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. In my view, the issue is not peculiar. This does happen nowadays. This is very early for you to assess your fiance. He could also be having the same mindset as you of being insecure. That could be one reason for his present behavior. Secondly, any behavior will chang...  Read Full »

How to avoid unnecessary conflicts with my fiance?

Query: Hello doctor, I am a 28-year-old woman staying with my fiance in a live-in relationship. He is practical, and every parent would love to have him as a son. He is the one I can go to for the suggestion because I feel he will give me a better solution and he is perfect. He has a lot of friends where...  Read Full »


Dr. Suresh Kumar G D

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. It is common to see one partner being outgoing and having lots of friends while the other has a limited social circle. The best way to minimize conflicts in a relationship is to be open and talk regularly to prevent the development of any deep-seated resentments. Hav...  Read Full »

I need guidance to prevent a quick orgasm from maintaining my relationship with my fiance. Kindly help.

Query: Hello doctor,To keep him and my relationship with my fiance intact, I need help. Before our in-person meeting, we had been in a long-distance relationship for two years. We were toxic and experienced ups and downs. We met when I was taking medicines for my polyps as well. Because I could not care fo...  Read Full »


Dr. Vishal Anilkumar Gandhi

Answer: Hello, Welcome to icliniq.com. I read your query and can understand your concern. First, if you are in a relationship, you must enjoy each other and try to understand each other. Sex is an essential part of the relationship. There is normal physiology in which the female takes time to reach orgas...  Read Full »

I want some premarital advice. Please help.

Query: Hi doctor, I am 27 years old and soon I am going to get married. My doubts are, what are the birth control methods I can follow. What precaution should I follow for short-term and long-term birth control? May I know the difficulties which a girl face during her periods? I have no idea about that. Sh...  Read Full »


Dr. Purushottam Sah

Answer: Hi, Welcome to icliniq.com. I have read and understood your problem. Regarding birth control, you can use a condom or your wife can use oral contraceptive pill (OCP). There are several brands having no major difference so use easily available one. These are the two best suitable for newlyweds. It...  Read Full »

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